A Daily Dose of Inspiration - Quotes

I love a great quote, but I especially love short ones that are easy to remember and offer a dose of inspiration in the middle of the day. The quotes are not mine but the pictures are. I am thinking I should use things I say on my own pictures. We all have something relevant to offer into the world with our words and our presence. I will start using my own words and my own pictures.

What are some of your favorite quotes? What inspires you?

How to Increase Your Focus

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Staying focused has been a challenge for me and it does not help that there are so many interesting things to read on the Internet 24 hours a day. I love learning new things and new ideas thrill me so much I want to instantly start working on them. But, this mindset does not yield very good results when your mind is all over the place. At some point, we have to make a conscious effort to focus on the task at hand. Here are a few ways I have been increasing my ability to focus:

Set up the right environment. I have a few favorite spots in my home I like to sit down and write. If my children are occupying my writing desk to do homework or my favorite chair, I try to recreate a space of comfort. I have a favorite shawl I like to wear and I usually have a cup of water or tea near by. As a mother, I have perfected the art of tune out, so I can block out most sounds around me at home. If it is really noisy, I will put on some headphones and listen to music while I write.

Only work on what is in front of you. Meaning, close the email and all your social media platforms. Cut off all distracting notifications on your phone. The only notifications I have set on my phone is text messages and low battery. If someone sends me a text, the message can wait to be read. If it is really important, family and friends know to call. By removing these distractions, I have created an ideal workspace for taking care of what I need to.

Schedule time to complete the task. I did not realize until recently how important it is to schedule time to write and workout. My day can easily become full of other people’s priorities very quickly. Since I have started writing down the days I will exercise and the time, I can stick to the schedule a lot easier. When it comes to writing, I am developing the discipline to write whether I feel like it or not, because I set the time aside to do just that. We have to put ourselves and the things we say are important to us on our calendars and treat them as important priorities.

Break the tasks down into doable pieces. It is easier to focus on a project or task when you break it down into smaller pieces. Everything does not have to be done in one sitting. If you are writing, get the first draft out and move on. If you are exercising, work on one body grouping instead of trying to do a full-body workout. Doing a half-ass job is as good as not doing the work at all, so break it down so you will be successful.

Finally, show yourself some grace as you develop your focus. It takes effort and making focus a priority to increase it. I fall off the bandwagon sometimes and lose my focus just like everyone else, but I know what I want to accomplish and how. That helps me to stay focused. It also helps to write down your projects or what you are working on. Being able to see what is important to you will help you to eliminate distractions and focus. Believe me, I accomplish much more when I write it down.

Tell me, what things are you trying to focus on and what are you going to do to increase your focus. Please share in the comments.

Finding a Creative Space to Write

This coffee shop is not far from where I work. I like it here a lot. The people are nice, the atmosphere is warm and inviting and it is great for people watching. This may be a place I frequent quite a bit when I need to write. Coffee shops for urban dwellers seems to be what parks are to suburbanites. A place to hang out, meet a few friends or just chill. I admit I love getting outside when I have the chance, as fresh air and nature can be rather inspiring.

I have been struggling the past few months with writing consistently. When I do have these kinds of moments, putting myself in a different space or atmosphere always seems to help. And, changing where I write also gives me permission to write badly. Sometimes, you just have to get something on the paper. Do the work instead of waiting to be inspired. I know for myself, if I waited to be inspired, I would not write a single word.

Do you have a favorite place you go to when you need to recharge your creative batteries?

Three Ways to Bring Balance to Your Life with Writing

Words to live by. Live in the moment.

I woke up earlier than normal this morning with writing on my mind. Since I committed to writing everyday a few weeks ago, it has made a huge difference in my mood and attitude. This is how I am bringing balance into my life with writing:

Commit to Writing Daily. Ideally, I try to write first thing in the morning. If something is still bothering me, I can get it out instead of allowing it to fester. Writing in the morning helps me order my day. As a single working mother, much of my time is devoted to my children and my job. Some days, it can be exhausting, but when it comes down to it, it is my life and I can either be happy in it or complain. I choose to be happy and writing about what is good in my life on a daily basis reminds me to always be in a grateful state of mind.

Find, Join, or Create a Tribe. My friend, Christie sent out an open invitation to join her writing circle on Google+. I have to say, it has been a blessing. For one, I am meeting new, amazing writers and Christie has made this fun and challenging. This year, finding my people (tribe) has been critically important as I pursue projects and the type of life I want to live. Connecting with other writers has helped me explore different genre of writing and taken me out of my comfort zone.

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone. I recent came across a website called The Write Practice. There, they share good information about short story writing. I used to write short stories when I was younger, but it is not something I have done in years, hence, it takes me out of my comfort zone. I figure trying different types of writing will make me a better writer. Plus, I may find out I love writing short stories or fiction or whatever.

Writing can definitely help with finding balance in your life. And, these three ways have made it a meaningful way of connecting for me. What do you do to bring balance in your life?