Living the Good Life Even Through Life’s Adversities

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Life is a funny thing. I think we all grow up with ideas or daydreams about what the good life is about. For many of us without the wisdom of experience, we believe the good life is synonymous with ownership or acquisition of things. We equate living the good life with consumeristic and materialistic ideas. We all do it - it’s a human thing.

At some point, those of us who are lucky enough to arrive at a deeper place of consciousness realize that the good life is more than just material things. Sometimes it’s a circumstance, or an adversity, or even something metaphysical that awakens us to a new meaning of life.

I grew up with ideas of what my own good life would be. Those ideas are far removed from what my life is like now but I’m fully aware that everything I have gone through or am currently experiencing is not without reason. I’ve fully subscribed to the fact that God has a plan for me. Having a child battling both leukemia and autism, and a husband facing possible deployment, I still think life is good. Because God is good. Some days are particularly stressful but thankfully, that’s not every day. And I do my best to focus on the moment.

I’m blessed to be able to get paid to travel - it’s a family life and a personal passion. So as much as I try to focus on the moment, when it’s a dark one, I think about the next adventure, the next trip. And when I’m on that trip, I’m there 100%, enjoying that particular moment. Without question, in that space I feel like I’m living a good life. Do I have everything I thought I’d have at this point? No. At the same time, do I have things that I never thought I’d have? Yes. Am I cured of all materialistic aspirations? I wish. But I know life is all about balance and as challenging as it can be, it is still good.

Three Ways to Bring Balance to Your Life with Writing

Words to live by. Live in the moment.

I woke up earlier than normal this morning with writing on my mind. Since I committed to writing everyday a few weeks ago, it has made a huge difference in my mood and attitude. This is how I am bringing balance into my life with writing:

Commit to Writing Daily. Ideally, I try to write first thing in the morning. If something is still bothering me, I can get it out instead of allowing it to fester. Writing in the morning helps me order my day. As a single working mother, much of my time is devoted to my children and my job. Some days, it can be exhausting, but when it comes down to it, it is my life and I can either be happy in it or complain. I choose to be happy and writing about what is good in my life on a daily basis reminds me to always be in a grateful state of mind.

Find, Join, or Create a Tribe. My friend, Christie sent out an open invitation to join her writing circle on Google+. I have to say, it has been a blessing. For one, I am meeting new, amazing writers and Christie has made this fun and challenging. This year, finding my people (tribe) has been critically important as I pursue projects and the type of life I want to live. Connecting with other writers has helped me explore different genre of writing and taken me out of my comfort zone.

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone. I recent came across a website called The Write Practice. There, they share good information about short story writing. I used to write short stories when I was younger, but it is not something I have done in years, hence, it takes me out of my comfort zone. I figure trying different types of writing will make me a better writer. Plus, I may find out I love writing short stories or fiction or whatever.

Writing can definitely help with finding balance in your life. And, these three ways have made it a meaningful way of connecting for me. What do you do to bring balance in your life?