Exploring Color **Orange**

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Orange is optimistic, uplifting and healing color. It is an excellent color to use during economic difficulties that keeps us motivated and helping us to look on the bright side of life. Orange brings a sense of spontaneity and a positive outlook on life.

The color orange relates to adventure and risk-taking. It inspires physical confidence, independence and a confident attitude. People inspired by orange are always on the go!

Put some orange in your life when you want:

  • to spice things up when you feel like life is dragging
  • to become more involved in something
  • to increase your creativity
  • relief from the seriousness of things

In the Midst of Busy, There is Still Intention

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One of my intentions for this year was to do a lot more writing for my blog. Only, I suddenly started to see time slip away from me quickly when the new year started. We are amping up at work for a huge community campaign and that takes up a lot of time. After leaving work, I head home to my main job as Mom and there are days all this activity can wear a person out. Yet, I do not complain.

While this week has been exhausting, it has also been filled with blessings. I was asked to speak at an event next month and two of my pitches were accepted to present at two conferences. It thrills me because I will have the opportunity to do what I love and share my love of writing, photography, connecting and storytelling.

So, if my post here are few, it is not without reason. I am taking my own advice and focusing. I am working on living the good life by simply living. By doing that, my writing here will be improved and I can hopefully share a few things with you that inspire.

How to Increase Your Focus

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Staying focused has been a challenge for me and it does not help that there are so many interesting things to read on the Internet 24 hours a day. I love learning new things and new ideas thrill me so much I want to instantly start working on them. But, this mindset does not yield very good results when your mind is all over the place. At some point, we have to make a conscious effort to focus on the task at hand. Here are a few ways I have been increasing my ability to focus:

Set up the right environment. I have a few favorite spots in my home I like to sit down and write. If my children are occupying my writing desk to do homework or my favorite chair, I try to recreate a space of comfort. I have a favorite shawl I like to wear and I usually have a cup of water or tea near by. As a mother, I have perfected the art of tune out, so I can block out most sounds around me at home. If it is really noisy, I will put on some headphones and listen to music while I write.

Only work on what is in front of you. Meaning, close the email and all your social media platforms. Cut off all distracting notifications on your phone. The only notifications I have set on my phone is text messages and low battery. If someone sends me a text, the message can wait to be read. If it is really important, family and friends know to call. By removing these distractions, I have created an ideal workspace for taking care of what I need to.

Schedule time to complete the task. I did not realize until recently how important it is to schedule time to write and workout. My day can easily become full of other people’s priorities very quickly. Since I have started writing down the days I will exercise and the time, I can stick to the schedule a lot easier. When it comes to writing, I am developing the discipline to write whether I feel like it or not, because I set the time aside to do just that. We have to put ourselves and the things we say are important to us on our calendars and treat them as important priorities.

Break the tasks down into doable pieces. It is easier to focus on a project or task when you break it down into smaller pieces. Everything does not have to be done in one sitting. If you are writing, get the first draft out and move on. If you are exercising, work on one body grouping instead of trying to do a full-body workout. Doing a half-ass job is as good as not doing the work at all, so break it down so you will be successful.

Finally, show yourself some grace as you develop your focus. It takes effort and making focus a priority to increase it. I fall off the bandwagon sometimes and lose my focus just like everyone else, but I know what I want to accomplish and how. That helps me to stay focused. It also helps to write down your projects or what you are working on. Being able to see what is important to you will help you to eliminate distractions and focus. Believe me, I accomplish much more when I write it down.

Tell me, what things are you trying to focus on and what are you going to do to increase your focus. Please share in the comments.

Restoration: My Word for 2013

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The past six or so years, I have selected a word to inspire me as I go about the new year. This year is no different, but the word I am using this year kind of caught me off guard.

I had grand hopes for 2012 being a year of prosperity and financial growth. Instead, it ended up being full of challenges that tried to shake my faith and break me. It was both emotionally and financially draining. While my children and I have experience many challenges the past few years, we always seem to maintain a sense of optimism and hope that the next day will be a better day. This type of positive thinking is what sustains us and as their mother, I have to watch the mood and tone I set in my home.

For 2013, I prayed about my word. I asked God to let it inspire me and give me hope. The word came to me boldly: Restoration. Immediately, I was reminded of Bible verses about God’s promises to restore what has been lost. While I have lost many material things, in their place, I have gained so much more. My spirit is strong and so is my mindset that some situations are only temporary. How I choose to deal with them will determine the quality of life I live, and I am planning to live one heck of an amazing life.

Do you have a word of the year?

Setting Yourself Up for Success in 2013 with Projects Instead of Resolutions

Happy New Year, 2013!

Happy New Year, my friends! I wish you blessings and much prosperity as we start off 2013. I used to start each new year with a crazy list of resolutions only to dismiss them before the end of the month. A couple of years ago, I stopped making resolutions and instead set goals. That worked a little while longer than the resolutions route, but those too quickly went by the way side as life started to amp up. This year, I am doing something different. I am set up monthly projects to work on and I am limiting myself to no more than five at a time.

365 Self Portrait Project

I have participated in 365 photo-a-day projects before and I used to do one for self-portraits ages ago. This year, I will be shooting a self-portrait each day for the next 365 days. If you would like to participate, I would love to have you join my self-portrait group on Flickr. I want to stretch myself with my photography and see if I can be more creative with how I play with the light and use the various features of my camera.

Health and Fitness Project

This year, my overall health and fitness is one of my top priorities. I started using the LeanMoms.com fitness program a couple of weeks ago. The first day I worked out my legs and I was sore for four days. It was awesome! I purposely did not start this project in January because I wanted to already be well on my way to establishing new eating and fitness habits. I also wanted to set myself up for success instead of failure. I am noticing changes in my body and my energy level. Most likely, this health and fitness plan will end up being one of my monthly projects for the rest of the year.

Good Life e-Book

I have been intending to write this e-book for about six months and I simply have not made it a priority. This month, it is. My goal is to have the e-book ready to share within the next couple of weeks and start planning for my next e-book in February. No more talking about it, it is time to execute!

Good Life Newsletter

This year, I am going to start a newsletter for my new blog. I love connecting with people and this is a great way to share more than I normally would with my blog. I have had quite a few new people sign up to receive it and I plan to have the first one ready to go the week. Make sure you sign up with the link above.

#MailLove2013

Starting the first week of this month, I will be mailing out postcards to anyone who signs up. When I was a teenager and well into 20′s, I had many penpals I shared letters with on a weekly basis. I would come home to at least three to five letters each week from people I wrote to all over the world. I don’t know about you, but I love going to the mailbox and finding an actual real piece of handwritten mail amongst the bills. This project is really important to me, because I believe people have forgotten how important offline connections really are. I hope you will sign up to receive a postcard from me or at least take the time to send someone else a little mail love in 2013.

What types of projects are you planning to tackle this year? I would love to know.